It wasn't the sort of shelling I'm used to, nor was it as satisfying as shelling has been for me in the past, but the important thing to me was that I was shelling again after a 4 month forced break. Being stuck in a wheelchair really cramps a girl's shelling style. But on this particular day I was already in the car, having just visited the doctor (who'd told us I have a tumor on my spine), so I suggested to my husband that a drive out to Sanibel might be just what we needed.
It was a beautiful day and the beaches were fairly empty of people. We parked on the Captiva side of the bridge and watched the waves roll in while we absorbed my health situation. After a short while my husband got out of the car and walked to the water's edge, scooping up a double handful of shells that he brought back to me and laid on my towel-covered lap so I could sort through them, then went back to get a second scoop. I was immediately distracted from my problems and had a wonderful time picking through the shells to find and save lots of double kitten paws, a few wentletraps, a huge coquina, what I understand is being called a mac and cheese shell, a little venus clam pair, some button shells and others. That was really fun! On the drive home we were able to be more clear minded and came to agree that for various reasons we believe the tumor is probably benign. We'll know more after I have another MRI.
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Oh, Pam....
I am so glad you knew instinctively to go where your source of solice is. I am sorry for this time of stress. You are in my thoughts and prayers~your positive outlook has to help.
You have inspired me to work with shells. I made a 'Sand Castle Theatre' in miniature for my new Wee Forest Folk. I love your collection and work with shells. After reading how you found your large shells, I am determined to start searching. Thanks you for being an inspiration!
Mini hugs! Lee
What a lovely Hubby he sounds :-) Pretty shells so colourful.
I Hope that your tumor is benign.
How brave you are in such a scary situation. Hugs to you Juliet
I am so happy that you were able to get out and go shelling. You are a sheller too so I'm sure you are like me...any time I can sift and sort shells it calms and relaxes me. Those little kitten paws are adorable. A wentletrap too!! My thoughts are with you and also that it's benign. xo
Dear Pam
I will be thinking of you each day and hoping everything goes well.. what a time you have been having.. stay positive my friend.. I just myself had to wait 2 months to be retested for Leukemia... although the dr wasn't overly worried.. it played and played on my mind.. but seems it is not the problem.. which is good!!! I'm so glad that think it is benign.. and will keep you in my thoughts whilst you wait the results... no wonder things just didn't improve for you!!
Well.. you're husband is a GEM.. you can tell him I think so... what a wonderful guy to take you shelling and assist by doing the legwork.. what a gem...
Have a good week Pam and try not to worry!!! xxxx Julie
Now if I could find a man like that, I would consider getting married again!
I am so sorry to learn what you are going through Pam, but with your positive attitude, a man like that and shelling, I know you'll stay strong.
xoxoxoxo
Rhonda
What a sweet husband you have. That certainly makes such bad news easier to bare. I pray that you get the very best news possible. You need to keep coming back to your 'happy place' to keep you strong and positive.
Dear Pam
Just popping in to see how you are.. hope all is well... thinking of you xxx Julie
HI Pam, dropping in to check up on you and let you know you've been on my mind. I keep watching my blogroll for an update and I'm worried since I haven't seen one. Sending you a big, sandy HUG!
How are you doing Pam?? I hope everything is OK...
Hi Pam, I'm missing you too!!! Keep waiting for an update. Pruxxx
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